I was told people like me didn't go to university, I was told I was not bright enough and reminded all too often that my best wasn't good enough. I never wanted anyone to feel like I did - I was alone, not worthy of support, and a problem, a problem without potential. I went to university to prove my family and teachers wrong - I wanted to be an example of a neurodivergent person achieving in higher education but in truth, it took me a while to thrive. The journey was isolating but my determination and resilience meant I graduated with 2:2.

The transition to employment was fraught with challenges but I wouldn't be where I am today without them - I have worked with neurodiverse and disabled people for over 20 years determined to make sure they didn't go through what I did.

I have learnt that being honest, authentically me - imperfections and all - is more than good enough.

The above article was written by Nikki.

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